who's to say when someone leaves is the wrong or the right time? people leave for a variety of reasons I would think..... all you can do is bless them and hope they have found a measure of peace or sanity or help in their lives.... afterall, not everyone lives with the same circumstances, same support systems.....and how well does anyone really know anyone here on the world wide web? I've had on-line people scam me and lie to me and now I just am hugely skeptical about most everything. This is a nice site, where people try to be helpful and do seem to care, but I'd leave in an instant if I could find help, support, real flesh and blood people who would be here for me. And I really wouldn't like it that anyone here would judge me for that decision.