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Originally Posted by wpowers
I suggest letting her come out with you while you are watching the TV or on the internet. Ask her to share with you what she remembers about things on TV such as what the commercials looked like or whatever it is. Even details like the type of clothes she remembers or the type of food cartons she had.
Doing basic daily things this way will show her (without telling her) that things are different. You will give her the things alters need to be able to figure out for themselves what the NOW is like:
1) Safety
2) Ability to state their truth without fear of rejection
3) A witness to their experience / reality
4) A place to explore the new world they find themselves in.
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The problem is I have no connection with the alter. I can connect to one but that is it. When she comes out she thinks she is in our old house and when she went to see our T she thought she was in an old teachers office. So I was thinking of doing this with my T but the right way we could do it. I don't want to screw everything up. She did talk to my T. She didn't understand somethings though like when she wanted her to switch so someone could drive us home. She doesn't even know she is part of a system.
Erin