Thanks Blady~ I will deal. I'm a survivor of CSA so I think I can make it thru this one way or another. Just seems so overwehlming with it all coming at me at once is all. Thanks for agreeing with me. He is showing some anger but he is not hitting me or anything like that. What may seem like such little steps right now I think will turn out to be bigger steps for us soon.Thanks for your reply, I really wasnt expecing it!

Hugz~
Bethy