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Old Dec 13, 2009, 04:45 PM
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Brightheart Brightheart is offline
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My H lashes out in anger whenever he feels he's lost control of a situation, whenever he feels hurt or whenever he feels incompetent. Those other feelings are too uncomfortable for him to deal with so he responds with anger to keep the more difficult emotions at a distance.
I called him out on it once recently and he was suddenly very quiet, which I found very revealing.
Thanks for this!
BlueMoon6, SpottedOwl