My son is 8 years old. His father and I are divorced. My son seems to not listen to what I say all the time. He says that he feels he has a "bad bone" or sometimes says that he has a "good voice" and a "bad voice". that he hears and he will listen to one or the other. I have done a behavioral chart, rewards, taken away toys, and playstation, but it doesnt seem to leave an impact. Anyone have any suggestions or advice or have been through something like this? Please help. I have tried counseling too. My son wont talk to the counselor.