Thanks for the replies...I am working on my issues and have made huge improvements but will continue to work on them probably what I make up a very long time if not forever. I am not actually looking to get into a relationship so to say but have always had the question in the back of my mind and part of my fights one way and part the other. Right now I am trying to concentrate on making myself better and building/rebuilding friendships. I am pretty new to the area I live and did not know anyone for a while and now kinda know a couple of women who I am building a friendship. I would like to build friendships with males but that seems to be much harder.

Thanks for your encouragement and advice!