(((Tmac)))
Grieving takes as long as it takes.....I still grieve for my father who killed himself when I was 8, I grieve for my Mom that died at Christmas coming up on 3 years ago., I grieve for my brother that died when I was 10, I grieve for my Mom's brother and sister that died not long after she did. I even grieve for the estrangement I feel from my brother after they were all gone. I think the important thing must be to let yourself feel what you need to feel and cry when you need to cry. Get it out and acknowledge the pain.....don't keep it bottled inside (even if you feel like they don't deserve your tears..you need to do that for you).

I am sending you understanding and hoping that you can feel your feelings even if you think they aren't deserved by the ones you grieve for....because they are gone and you are not and you are important.

Much love and understanding you you,

Susan