hi paitingravens.....
i very much appreciate your post. it got me to think again about listening to my gut. i have did and i recently signed up to a dating thing and i still self harm. my gut has been telling me im not ready to date again. because i would probably be so stressed that i would have strong urges to self harm. and if i feel that need still then that need to selfharm is telling me im not ready to date. maybe im rambling i hope that your counseling session went well...........................kasva