Sometimes, it just feel awkward to me. I have seen muffy here since I started but never really interacted, much, so I feel embarassed saying I miss you and embarassed not saying I miss you, if you know what I mean.

I think loss of anyone or anything is a good time to turn inward and examine our grieving process, even here on PC. There is a grief forum and although she is alive and well it is about my/our grief and it might be an opportune time to express our emotions around losses. I find saying I miss someone can heap guilt on them and creates in me a kind of attachment that could possibly get out-of-hand. Having said that, what I will miss is the relationship I observed between Muffy and Knowheretorun in the videos section. They were extremely supportive to each other and that touched my heart greatly.

I would like to see more of us be able to express our losses from CSA to missing a new acquaintance but feel that b/c of North American culture it may be judged as making something bigger of it than it is, if I put it in the grief section.

I also feel pretty awkward that there are some really hurting people never get 'kudos' but it seems always the same ones, but that is just me. I hate people being left out. By the way, no I am not writing about myself here.

I don't think I've been edited but I have had one post removed because I misunderstood some rule.

By the way, when I first read that the rule was people aren't allowed to say the are leaving, I thought that meant they aren't allow to say they are 'doing themselves in', so until this post came up I add no idea that leaving meant only saying goodbye. I wondered why I never saw people though that I had first met when I came a year ago. You can only imagine how I thought they were doing...all just going due to sui? It has been quite a relief to know that they all haven't gone that route.

Remember this is coming from an INFP/J. So, it obviously was my intuition 'breaking down' to have thought this way.

My 2 cents worth.