My father in law used to do the same stuff, then lecture me when things didn't go the way he planned. It's hard, dear, especially with someone who loves you. Just try to realize that he is probably enthusiastic because it is YOU he is thinking of. He might get carries away thinking of your future. It is not the same as a demand, although it feels that way, God knows. Hang in there , Just Floating. don't let his enthusiasm sink you