Thread: Wedding blues - any thoughts?
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Old Dec 15, 2009, 05:33 PM
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Don't be sorry for ranting. Rant away! This is major. Trust your gut - not your head. You can always GET married. When it's right it will feel right. If it doesn't, wait until it does.

You may be saving yourself from greater heartbreak in the long run. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with a man who is acting like a mini dicator and is guilt tripping & manipulating you for the rest of your life? If he really loves you, his care, concern and understanding for you and your feelings, should come out when you express your fears, desires and doubts. If that doesn't show up in him, that's a VERY BIG RED FLAG.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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