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When I was younger I had the same problem as you. Predators sensed my vulnerabilities. Other vulnerable men seized on my "nice" side. Do yourself and both the predators and the vulnerable men a favor. Be honest about how you feel, even if it makes you feel like a b i t c h.
As soon as you start feeling confusion about what's happening between you and some man, get it set straight promptly. When you find the right man for you, it will be natural and flow easy. Until then don't worry about what other men think of you.
All women have at least a little b i t c h in us. If a man is too scared or angry to deal with that, HE has a problem. Let him deal with his problem. You only have (some) control over your own problems.
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