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Old Dec 15, 2009, 06:10 PM
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If youre going to have a friendship with this guy. Learn to depend on him for NOTHING. Just casually observe. Dont attach emotional significance to too much.

Be detached. Its ok to be friends but dont expect very much from a married dude.

Seriously.

In fact, it'd probably be better to move on entirely.
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