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After the relationship. I noticed that my sexual preferences were whatever reminded me of this person. Guys who had a witty sense of humor, older guys, blonde women and I began to feel like I had loved the person INSIDE rather than any gender that they had
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I liked this part of your post.
There are lots of people who go through this type of confusion at one time or other. Then there are simply bisexuals. And yes, I agree that it all was probably prompted by your tragic loss of your boyfriend.
You will begin to feel better as more time passes. Oh, and by the way, I myself have been duped by an old geezer online before. He didn't claim to be a different sex but he did claim to be 30 years younger than he was. He also was a liar and a cheat. It's happened to a lot of people so don't beat yourself up. It's one of the pitfalls of the internet sometimes.