hi, very new, just looking for a nudge in the right direction or something... my wife and i have been together for about 4 years, and i am unable to remember anything that she says or does at night, if she tries to wake me up, just to be sweet or something, i have no recollection, if she calls me at night, we will sometimes have full blown conversations and i can't recall a thing, not even mistaking it for a dream, sometimes, apparently i am harsh and rude, pulling away from her in bed and from what it sounds like, just being a jerk... I really have no idea what she's mad about when i get up, and i don't want her to think that i'm just "conveniently" forgetting things... i would if i could, but i can't... if anyone knows of anything i should look into, it would be a great help.

thanks.