Well I did it...I went ahead and told my friend about my cutting. I kinda took the easy way out I guess because I was going to tell her over the phone but her phone went dead and so we talked on the computer and thats when I told her.. I thought I was going to get sick just telling her I was so wound up but she didn't freak out at all...Come to find out she has talked about this with her sister because her sister has wanted to do it as well so she kinda understands where I am coming from...she wasn't accepting of the behaviour but she was there to support me through this hard time that I am going through. I am so glad that I told her...but still feel a little guilty for putting this off on her but she did say that she could handle it...Well that's just an update...thanks for all your encouragement!