Thread: Blocking out the hurt?
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Old Dec 16, 2009, 05:28 PM
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Unfortunately you probably can't help but be sad. That shouldn't stop you from trying to live in the present and distract yourself as much as possible. But when you lose (or change) a relationship you care about you are going to feel hurt and sad. So give yourself time to feel your feelings, have a good cry and then get back into the present and being good to yourself. When it builds up too much, do the same thing all over again. Over time, you will heal from this hurt.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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Thanks for this!
Naturefreak