I do like to respond to posts when I can. I dont like to give a half baked answers. I also start reading some posts but then I find I dont have an adequate answer.... cos there is so much.. I don't have a phd in psychology and I don't want to clutter the boards.
I do like to leave a reply that is helpful where I can. Often I am just overwhelmed by the depth of pain. I dunno babysteps. Try not to count numbers if you can even those it is hard not to do.
We do care about you.