I was raised roman catholic so sex and maturbation was not good. I also was taken advantage of while I was drunk. I dont think we had sex though. About a year ago I was raped.
I understand that is why it happens, that is why I got the book (I am not being mean). It is ten steps to overcoming it. There is also a workbook and dialators to up grade in size.
I have tired everything and it never worked, so I am hoping that it will work!
We have done other stuff but I need to get over the feeling that anything sexual is dirty. It is one of the steps in the book.
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Originally Posted by Rhapsody
While I do not suffer from this disorder it is my understanding that most of these cases are due to psychological issues or psychological mixed with medical issue, but never medical issues alone.
With that being said may I ask you about your past sexual experience?
Any sexual abuse in your childhood or upbringing where you were told (and now believed) that sex is bad?
If the main reason behind your pain and discomfort is emotional then I suggest some counseling to help you heal from the past. If the main reason behind you not having sex if the physical pain then might I suggest using some pain pills and a good vaginal lubrication with minimal penetration of the penis.
I have gone through spells where it was to painful for me to have sex due to my Fibro and RA and I usually helped my husband out manually when I could not be with him physically... have you tried this?
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