I put a "Thank you" to all the replies that express better than I can do it what I would like to say; or to all replies that added a good answer, information, in my opinion. My English is awful and my phrases are twisted (my avoidance mechanism is another problem). I rarely get interested about a subject, if it's not for help; in the last situation I might think if I can really help. It's enough to re-read or ... "to sleep on it" when I am writing and I feel to delete all. Usually I am doing it! Therefore many times I think "what does it matter if I answered or not, who needs my view, words? Especially when I can hardly express anymore myself in a concise, efficient way?! I might harm instead of helping"

I would not like that "HIDE" options as I do not like the trigger icon either. And yes, I got triggered too! And what? We have to start to face our problems ... that's why we are here for. And we learn from others; HOW. Thank you for this thread that make us put in open our fears or views and see that we are not the only one feeling, thinking so!