As a male (tongue in cheek) lol haha and so on...I wonder would the question be different if all these men that hit on you...or what you percieve as "being hit on"...if they paid no attention at all to you and simply left you alone...we'd be sitting here reading things like why dont guys find me attractive why dont men like me...there is a truth inside of us all and it is so sugar coated with ******** it can make your head spin...time to wake up and realize that deep down we all...men and women...need to be validated every second of every day...it's no use sitting there pretending you aren't the least bit interested in what any man or any woman has to say...there are only two things that we...as humans...think about and that is food and sex...we need nothing else...but as for being hit on by guys...boo hoo...get over it...there is no magic button that you can press and turn off the sexuality...harsh...yes...but reality sucks dont it...HARSH...sorry...I guess men have earned that sticker of being sexual preditors because we are...but so are women...they just lie about it better than men...