Did you say he hurts you? That alone is reason enough to want to leave. I know a lot of people think marriage is a sacred vow that should never be broken, but no one, even someone with a mental illness, deserves to be in pain or hurt by their spouse. You deserve better, and you deserve to be happy.

I'm not trying to convince you to get divorced, but know that if you do, it doesn't mean you've done anything wrong. You have to take care of yourself and your son. Maybe that means moving on?