I agree with all of the comments posted. I think when I first started here I was totally lost and had formed rigid thick walls around me with limited my ablilty to see that what did feel right to me, might be exactly what someones might need. I think as I've moved along in my own therapy explorations my boundaries and opinions have become more flexible. Now, I kind of think...the way you do therapy with your T should only be limited to...what works and is healthy for you. I also think on a forum like this when you present a thought, idea, or share a situation and ask for comment...you need to be prepared to get a few that many not be what you wanted to hear. The good thing in this is that you have an opportunity to analyze your thoughts and see if your still believe them after reading other perspectives.