I don't think there is a right or wrong way to do therapy. I wouldn't have thought of my former T as superior either. But...I am extremely protective of our relationship and of him. So anytime I might get the feeling anyone is judging him or our relationship...I get triggered. This is fairly typical for me and goes back to my past, of course. I do think, a lot of times, I often read into things and don't perceive them in the way they were intended. So internet stuff, I guess.