"I am going to miss the woman I fell in Love with but she is nolonger that woman."

I have a brother like that. He is my brother and I love him but he isn't my brother anymore, not the one I loved so I had to let him go. It isn't always easy but sometimes certain people cause us harm and we don't need or deserve that.

I won't lecture you about drinking and driving becuase you already know the effects of that. It has had a profound affect on my life so I feel very strongly. My ex had two Offenses. My father got in an accident and almost killed himself when I was 17 and my young cousin (21) was killed cause he and his buddy thought it was ok to take an afternoon drive when they were drunk. His friend, the driver liived but I know he wished he had died.

It's not good to drink to cover up, hide, forget or bury emotions and pain. All you are left with is a hangover which just makes your feelings worse. Oh, and more trouble like a DUI. If you find that you have a hard time not drinking then it might be a good idea to call your local AA (alcoholics anonymus, listed in the phone book) and get some help and support. They are good people who are struggling with life just like the rest of us. You learn alot about yourself, you find ways to cope instead of drinking and you have a support system of people who care and understand.

Maybe you don't need this info, I don't know you well enough but I wanted to give you the info just in case it could be helpful.

I hope you hang out with your friends and try to get back to the guy you were before. She will move on too.
Best,
Heidu

When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.- Alexander Graham Bell