Thank you, all of you. In my case, Seeker, they ignore my husband just as much as they ignore me, so I guess it's something I inherited with marrying HIM. I have talked with some of them, on an individual basis, and they all have feelings of inadequacy in some way. There were a LOT of kids in the family and I guess none of them really felt loved. There is a definite shortage of love in that family.

I prefer spending time with MY family and so does my husband. They are not perfect, but there is love.