Elkie,

nothing like having someone visit to get the kick you need! I know that feeling all too well and tell my husband it's a good thing the kids come once in a while!

What you said is so true of me also, re: used to do so much, not don't do much. The NOW is the reality, and I am not sure about the future much at all.

Sometimes reality sucks and other times (most of the time) it's okay and then every now and then it's great. I like the way you think about it. Thanks.