Hi all,
I went up to the house today to get it tidied up and also to get it sorted so that I can rent it out. I am okay with it, thought it would make me sad, it did but not in the way I thought it would. There are memories there and all of that but I think I'll focus on the good and not the bad.
He left some crap behind so have emailed him so that he can get rid out if, not my responsibilty to throw out his junk, he should have done that when he left. He says he'll do it tomorow. Good.
I am going shopping with a friend today, so that should keep my mood level I think
I am not going to worry about him anymore, he made his choice and yes it hurts, one day he wil realise that he should have taken the second chance that I was offering and not take the easy option that for the time being has not baggage. Its all new a fresh that's why it feels good to him. It wont last (as lynn P says).
You can change the place you are in but you can't change who you are, not really. He needs to grow up and be a man.
The new relationship is based on lies and that's not a good foundation for anything, everything will come crumbling down.
Thanks everyone!