Moon, Tree's last post was excellent, time to slow down.......... Your daughter is holding your hand and kissing you, your 11 y.o. son talks to you and tells you how he is affected by you. It sounds like you have excellent relationships with your children. You will all make it out of this. You all have needs and they all need to be balanced. You are doing a good job...........

And these tantrums do sound like triggering and dissociating.