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Dec 21, 2009, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by _Sky

My oldest sister ruined our mom's funeral... by planning it all on her own. None of the rest of us siblings were happy, because she didn't do what mom wanted. We didn't know it until too late, as she forged ahead on her own (yet had us all pay for it!)

I'm sorry for your loss. Your sister's energy will still surround you, in spite of the events surrounding her cremation and memorial.

From your sharing it reinstates what the mother really is.... lost in the fantasy of she being a good person: what she did at this memorial, how she emitted. I almost called and thanked her for the memoribila. Thank God the phone was busy - twice.
I almost feel into the trap - again... and it has taken far too long to come this far.
This is what Brenda deserved!
But this is what 'FACE' wanted everyone to see what wonderful thing she did for her loving daughter - BUT WHERE WAS SHE 'ALL' THE YEARS OF OUR LIVES - We were in her grasps of horror.