OK, I'm really hoping that it is!

Say there was a psychiatrist who was an administrator of a forum. There is a member who is in love with him, but he is really strict with boundaries. Oh and the love is not romantic, it is platonic. This pdoc meets up with the members of his forum sometimes and has met this particular member 3 times.

Now this member is hoping she can see this pdoc for real one day, for a second opinion, as a patient. But it wouldn't be all the time since they live far apart.

Would this be ethical?