I am glad I stopped by this thread and it has become an issue in my life. I am nearly 49 and I absolutely abhor sex now, as is so incredibly painful to me, there is negative zero pleasure in it, no matter how much lube I use. I am in peri now, complete with nite sweats, heavy monthly cramping.......
I am lucky in the aspect that I am in a long distance relationship, so I do not have to deal with it very much anymore. Shame too, as I have memories of 15 years ago and before enjoying it most of the time. Maybe I have a tilted uterus, but I have no health insurance or eligibility for medicaid, so there is no way for me to confirm this.
Sex is such a big part of a relationship for many people that I do hope you can find something to help you out.
Best wishes !
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