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Well, the Holidays are so not good for our system and although we have grounding skills that work they are only now starting to work sometimes. Let me see if I can explain this...
The holidays have become more and more stranger as the year's have gone by, now we mainly spend Christmas with my friend/landlord's family which comes to my home, my space as well. So it's not like I can go home. People (her family) make comments and my friend chooses to ignore it as if it is an isolated incident or something. Each year the comments get more rude and harsh and what feels like to us of being pushed aside in our own home. It hurts deeply and we know it's our way of viewing it and we've tried to be positive about it.
Some of the ideas that have worked like a charm in the past still helps and we usually end up doing this anyway.
We excuse ourselves and hear them having a good ole time and our mind begins to wander and thinking that becomes dwelling on what we have been learning about where we came from and not knowing where we belong pushes us to the breaking point.
We have prepared our grounding skills, drawing supplies, our dark dark chocolate and atomic fireballs...
We were just wondering if anyone could add some things that work for you. Please give us Positive ideas since negative ideas most of the time = negative consequences ya know?
Thanks for all input...ThaCrew
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