I get wrapped up in his bad mood- he is a bit child-like- kind of stomps his feet when he has to do something other than what he wants, Guilt comes along then even after the job is done I can't stop the guilt. I do try to have warm liquid, cozy clothes, fresh towels in bathroom so he can take a shower, etc. I spoke with my therapist yesterday, she says I need to talk with him, but it almost feels like I should talk with him with HIS t (we don't go to the same one), that way the t can hear what I have a hard time with, then work on it in future sessions. Can I do that?? Would it make my husband feel like he can't even do his own therapy right?? I do love him to pieces!