I joined this forum because I feel like I have no where else to go. I am in the military and have been married for a little over 2 years. My husband followed me to my first duty station in Florida and now he followed me to my current duty station in Washington state. He was so depressed in Florida (for 3 years) but he blamed it on the fact that the economy was so bad down there and he couldn't find a job (he's a photographer). All we wanted to do was move then everything would be better. Well we did move, to Washington, about 3 months ago and it hasn't gotten any better, if anything maybe it's worse. He keeps saying it isn't me, but I'M the one who keeps him moving around with the military, I'M the one who keeps uprooting him and forcing him to leave his friends! He gets angry about this sometimes too, he broke a chair last week. I'm not afraid for myself or anything but I am afraid of what he might do to myself. He has not been able to find a job up here yet or meet many people and this is what he's blaming the depression on (even though he is convinved he isn't depressed) but I think it might just be him. I feel like he's stuck in this hole and I can't help him out. I love him so much and I know he loves me too. He still tells me that he can't live without me. But what do I do??? It breaks my heart watching him hurt like this!