Snodders,

Your mummy was correct to warn you about safety and online forums. The moderation here is conscientious toward safety yet let's not forget that what is safe to one may not be safe for others.

There comes personal responsibility for safety as well. With a system/family/circles/whatever it is one calls their inners/alters additional needs for safety usually exist.

Please listen to your mummy and talk with her IN DETAIL about who your system allows to post here and the pros and cons of such.

This CAN be a safe place for some in some people's systems and a scary place for yet others.

Please take necessary precautions for the safety of your system here and take personal inventory of who in your system can handle online interaction.

take care and continue remaining alert for your safety and well-being.