Hello, some weeks ago my fiance was in the shower and his cell ringed, sometimes he asks me to answer for him, so I looked at the caller ID and it said Jessica (she is a girl that we know from a yoga class), when he came out i told him he had a voicemail, after listening to it he said to me "oh, it was my friend Peter"... So I asked "and what did Jessica say?" and he froze. He finally admited that he had lied to avoid conflict with me becouse he thought I may not like her calling him. You see, he's the kind of guy who's friendly with anyone, and I love that about him, but I did mention before that I didn't think it was cool for him (45) to be friends with 19 year old girls...
He promised he won't lie to me again becouse now he realizes how much harm can be done by a white lie, and although I really do not think he had anything to do with her, I'm having a hard time trusting him, my mind goes crazy wondering what else he keeps from me to avoid confrontation... I want to forgive and forget, I don't want to ruin this beautifull relationship... Help!