Wisewoman,
I'm sorry you are going through this right now. And pain like that certainly is enough all by itself, let alone with family conflict. I'm guessing that you have always done the best you can, and it sounds like you are doing that now, too. That's all you can do.

Can your doc help with a med adjustment to help with the auditory hallucinations? I would imagine that is confusing and stressful.

Take care and gentle hugs,
gg