Hi Isabella!
Glad to hear youve found "a really great guy" to be with. I guess you'd have to have told him sometime, especially if you want it to be a long term relationship thing.
But at the same time you worry that he'll get mad if you dont eat or express how youre feeling...how about giving him the chance to prove otherwise? As a guy speaking (if not a particularly great one) Id feel quite hurt if I thought my GF couldnt tell me what she was going through!
Cutting back on the fatty **** and the alcohol sounds great, but please dont start restricting too much! Dont want any rebound binging occuring.
Here's a thought...you said you told him while drunk...have you discussed with him since then what he thought about what you told him?

Post again & let us all know how things are going!

Matt c