LoL @ Jess & Elysium!

But to the OP--As mentioned, everyone is different. I can somewhat relate to how you are feeling. I dropped from about 145 to 110 a few years ago due to depression. So needless to say, they shrunk and so did my butt! I don't think that they are that important...not everyone is the same. With that said---I don't think that your fiance would be bothered by it in the least. *hugs*