I don't mean to rain on your idea, but I do not think this pdoc will say "yes". He knows that you have a huge crush on him and I think he wouldn't want to encourage the fantasy any further. There are plenty of pdocs in your own town for a second opinion. I do not mean any harm or to sound harsh. I believe this pdoc will want to maintain his boundaries, even in this limited situation as a second opinion.

You are a special person. I do not want you to get hurt.