Thread: "Nympho"?
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Old Dec 24, 2009, 12:25 PM
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****Some parts in here can be triggering****

Last night I was called a nympho. I've been called it before but thought with my past partners it was just a joke, nothing serious until the man I'm with now. I can see how now maybe I am having sex more than the normal person, and wanting it more than the normal person, up until last night though I thought it was normal.

I don't want to get into too many details but to explain what I mean by wanting and doing more than the normal person I'll have to give you an example.

Yesterday, me and my boyfriend spent the entire day together. During the time we were together I couldn't keep my hands off him, even when people were around, I tried to be careful and sneaky but I couldn't. This is all fun and exciting right? Being sneaky and what not... Well that was OK until we got back to his house.

4 times in 3 hours... Not even enough of a break in between to finish cigarettes before I wanted to go again. Don't get me wrong either, he gets the job done, and not trying to be vulgar again, just letting you know the full story. Even after the 4th time, he was exhausted and so was I but I still wanted to continue and didn't give up trying until I fell asleep.

This isn't an occasional thing either, when I can have sex, I want to have sex. Only with the man I'm with now and if for some reason I can't have it when I want it with him, I don't go get it from other people, but every day that I can have sex with him, I try to and I try to multiple times a day. He's having a hard time keeping up.

My sex drive is obviously through the roof. I was wondering first if anyone else is like this?! I'm 22 and in my past I have gone through more sexual abuse than the normal person. From Step fathers to teachers to uncles to strangers. I have seen every side of the sexual abuse. So why do I want sex so much? If sexual activity has caused me so much pain, why is it that I want to have sex all the time? Why can I never get enough?

I guess I should be happy that with my past I can still enjoy sex, but is there a psychological reason that I want it so much? Am I even a nympho? Is it even a lot that I want it? Or is this just normal for my age?

I'm not having a really hard time with this right now, it doesn't keep me up at night and I don't cry over it and I'm safe when it comes to sex, and only with one partner, I just don't know if it's psychological or just me wanting to have a good time and enjoy myself. Any views? Opinions or advice?
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Kris
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