depends on the situation. If it is truely unintentional I forgive them. For example My therapist and I had a court meeting to attend. During the meeting I said something that at the time she felt was inappropiate. (I had called the new caseworker by his first name) So when we got outside she lit into me. One of my triggers in the past was having someone yell at me. So I semi escaped by entering my tunnel area (psychiatrists call this area co consciousness - being both aware of the situation, trigger and the floating dissocaited daydream like feelings) So anyway I kept my cool by not saying a word while she yelled and then I walked away. over a course of months (I see her 2 times a month) she learned that everyone on the case was mostly on first name basis and that I hadn't done anything wrong, her yelling at me had triggered and why. She admitted that she had gone about it wrong and appologized she just wanted everything to be perfect - I had a new caseworker new change so to speak. (this was also before she realized what my past therapist and I told her about the past caseworker was true) anyway She was my new therapist trying to do what was best to give me the best chance to get my son back and she tried too hard. It took a while to build up trust again but we did because I knew it was just that she hadnt been on the case long enough.