He is insecure and non-trusting. You'd think after 9 years he'd know me a little better - the people here know me more than he does.......that tells you something.

lol - no need to shush. He misses me because he wants me physically - that is all he thinks and cares about. Because I don't focus my life around that, he claims I am "not normal". If that is the definition, then I guess not.