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Old Aug 08, 2005, 05:45 PM
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Hi MeeMaw

I'm very sorry ...I know this kind of pain first hand. I was married for 11years (though divorced presently) and had gone through a very similar situation.

I was best friends with my then husband and thought that everything was okay or at the very least he would never do the things he did...only like you to find out very differently.

I needed answers too. I read this book:

by Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil called

Adultery, the Forgivable Sin: Healing the Inherited Patterns of Betrayal in Your Family (this was back in 1996)

I read it and that very same weekend I called her and went to therapy with her for 2years. Reading her book totally made sense to me. She had been on oprah and several other shows.

You might find it helpful. I found it to be extremely helpful.

I noticed that there is a revised copy now. 2003

The one I had read was from 1994.

If you ever want to talk ...pm me anytime.

I'm so sorry you are going through this...it isn't enough what you went through and then to be put through this by the one person you'd never think could do this to you.

Please take good care
Eva
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