Please fill me in more about the RN, and how they were treating you. Its not fare to treat family of the ill in that way. I wonder if they stop and think if it was them and how they would be dealing with the situation.You need as much support as you can,in the that trying time.The Rn my friend had was a lovely lady and very supportive to all. Especially with her husband. He was lucky.It has been three months today since my friend has gone.I feel agree with her DR,she was sick on and off for a while and they put it down to blood pressure and over weight. About three months she had these signs,headach, blured vision, ect. My friend had breast cancer 2 year ago,and was treated. Now you would think the Dr would have looked into it more,maybe a scan or something to detect why she was having these real bad headachs. Knowing that she had had breast cancer. ??????.She even said herself before she died ,do you think I can summons him for that.So I feel anyone who has a medical problem and you feel its not right demand some action.To be on the safe side. Take Care.

P.s. What sort of horses do you have. I had horses . Bye.