Hi Adamsgirl,

I was once known on here as 'missing mark'.. my other half of 5 years broke up with me a little over a month a go with no warning... He says he just stopped loving me - still can't tell me how or why... He is now with a new woman who is 5 years younger. He says now that he doesn't know if he loves me or if he loves her.
I searched for answers and never really got them - I'm a problem solver so haven't felt complete because up until the end I thought we were happy.

My advice to you - as given to me by many wonderful people on this forum, is to not blame yourself, it's his loss. Time does heal all, it wont feel like that now for you. I found that going to therapy and getting new medication has helped a bit. Lynn P. said to me that it's like a roller coaster ride and it is.

Surround yourself with people that love you dearly and talk, talk, talk.... Just saying it all out in the open makes a huge difference.

You have my heart felt support and wish I was there to hug you tight.