Purple we did the work book ,The courage to Heal, it helped us alot many times. Also we did it and group therapy so we found out we not alone on that issue. There are ways to work on it by yourself but if you can at least find a surport group and give it a try it may help you heal and allow you to have more peace in this relationship. We always told people that with each new partner we had we got someone better each time cause we finely realised we deserve better in our chosen partner. If you can look back and see what you were willing to accept from the past partners and now what you are will to accept from your chosen partner then you can see your own self worth has gotten better. Good Luck on you inner jounry of self worth.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson
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