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Dec 26, 2009, 06:11 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2007
Location: UK
Posts: 587
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Originally Posted by Melbadaze
ok this sounds pretty obvious and I should have gotten it figured out long ago perhaps??. But the other day T said that instead of sedating myselfl with codiene I should self soothe.
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...... another question, did she actually tell you? Its diffucult sometimes when a T tells you what to do/ not do, even when they're right, or specially when they#re right! ... at his best, my T. has said things which cleared the way for me to step up to the mark, from there it became obvious what I needed to do, so it didnt feel like he had stepped into authority.
(but I dont think Ive yet had a T. who hasnt slipped into telling me what to do at some stage, and that included him, those relationships being imperfect by nature...  )
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