Well - no idea what others might say. Here is what I think though:

1) If you are feeling the therapy provided is causing more harm than healing - it is time to move forward.

2) There is no way to judge the motive of your T. The only thing you can go by is if her actions as a therapist (including her work attire) is setting you back in your healing - then again there is a problem.

3) You are responsible for the next step. If you are being honest, then continue with that. If you go back, I suggest printing off what you said here and let her read it. That way she will see through your eyes.